The Heart of Imago Therapy is to help you understand the root causes of your relationship conflict and frustrations, your role, your reactive behaviour and what you bring to the space.
Imago gives you the relationship communication tools and skills you need to work through your relationship conflict(s) irrespective of the nature of the relationship. As a result you will experience wonderful new depths in your day to day living.
When relationships get tough, it can be hard to listen, and impossible to feel heard. Imago shows you how to reconnect by using a new way of talking together, called the Imago Intentional dialogue. It's a way of listening and speaking which helps you learn more about each other. We help you discover what lies underneath relationship conflict, and how to resolve it together.
If the Imago principles and tools are applied sincerely, consciously and willingly, one can gain:
• Greater compassion.
• New communication skills to break destructive, repetitive cycles.
• Channel your energy from arguing to rather create passion and stability in your relationship/s.
• Discover how the unconscious forces that attract you to your partner are also the source of your conflict and can be overcome
Why you and your partner will benefit from Imago therapy
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To learn the Imago Dialogue through direct personal experience
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To experience what it feels like to be heard and understood
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To grow in your capacity for deep listening
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To have the benefit of a facilitator to guide the learning
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To develop perspective on your own life and relationship
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To make sense of your pain, conflict and to discover the hidden needs in your reactive behaviour
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To understand your partner’s pain and discover the underlying unmet needs
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To heal and grow within a safe and structured space
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To get unstuck from old repetitive patterns of behaviour that no longer works
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To develop new skills and behaviours that will gift your relationship with real love